The studies referred to in "Delusions
of Violence: The Secrets Behind Domestic Violence Myths" merely
include violence such as hitting, biting and kicking, or using guns
or knives .
I think this leaves out the severity or the malice behind the attack
. For example , when considering Domestic Violence, rape is not included
as an act of Domestic Violence, but as a far more serious crime, dealt
with separately .
Now if rape is a much more serious crime (despite the fact that the
relationships between men and women are for the very reason of sex ),
why is sexual assault against men a laughing matter ? Shouldn't it be
as serious as rape -- or actually far more serious, considering that
rape is merely a socially unacceptable instance of a natural, biological
act needed for the survival of the species ?
These studies do not mention the target of the hitting kicking etc..
I have read on the Web of several men who have been kicked in the groin
by their wives, girlfriends and sisters for trivial, mild excuses (such
as he looked at another woman, or he wasn't listening etc.), or even
unprovoked ( as some college girls do just for fun to show their friends
how brave they are ) .
Imagine if men did the same, how much time they'd do in jail . Hitting
below the belt is sexual assault and should be treated that way: a serious
crime. Women who do this to men should get the same punishment that
men get for rape. If castration is being lobbied for by feminists, men
should ask for such violent women to be castrated as well .
Rape is considered bad merely because women feel "ashamed,"
"humiliated " etc.. Just because women feel some particular
way, men are brutally treated. But men who are kicked in the groin also
feel bad. So why are people still laughing at such antics in movies,
while no one laughs at rape depictions ? No one laughs at women who
have had hysterectomies. No one laughs at women who have had mastectomies.
But should a man ever be unlucky enough to be castrated, or have his
penis severed, especially by a woman, he is the butt of all jokes in
the media. And women talk about men being insensitive !
Maybe you think that I am a psychpath ( as someone on the Yahoo groups
called me), but the logic is clear . If boys aged 7-8 years have been
made eunuchs by their own mothers -- who were not even punished -- how
can anyone even mention rape as a serious crime ? I want women to receive
the same punishments that men have suffered over thousands of years.
Is that not justified, in the face of the unrecognised crimes committed
against men ?
People who know my anti-feminist thinking consider me somewhat of a
psychopath for my insistence on punishing women for their crimes .
I believe in Shakespeare's line: " Violent delights have violent
ends ."